As in true Kenyan form, the additional pieces of furniture that were suppose to be done today so we could place them in the Art Room, were not finished, and even after class we went back and they said tomorrow at 1pm. Thank God our flight is not until nearly midnight tomorrow. At this time tomorrow, Margaret and I will be sitting on the tarmac at the Airport awaiting departure to DC. It amazes me how quickly this time goes by when we are here.
The last Friday is always the day of celebration and reward. We have always created certificates and brought in snacks to celebrate the completion of another year of participation in the art immersion program. Today Margaret and I handed out the certificates with excitement. Some of our students have collected 4 certificates. Where did the time go?
Today is alway emotional, because the gratitude that is tossed our way by these students is overwhelming. They are filled with hope, love and gratitude in a way that I cannot comprehend. Our sheer repeated presence to them is substantial and important. After certificates and the distribution of snacks that has to be done in a fair and equitable way (fair is fair, if ones has 5 cookies and the other has 4, they all know it and feel bad so you become very clear on making sure all get fair shares), there was lots of chatter.
The conversation ranged from the art show the night before at Kuona trust, to the snacks, art and how much they like the oil paints and the new forms 1 sitting with all the other students excited about their participation in this new and exciting thing called art. It is heartwarming. Margaret and I talked about what to do next, continuing their work throughout the year with the continuation of art club. The club meets while we are gone once officially and usually another day unofficially each week to continue growth based on the art immersion and morphs into a peer to peer education that has oversight of the club by a teacher sponsor. They teach each other and continue to perfect what they learn, incorporate their own self learning and the peer learning element which is all great. It is the concept of giving them guidance, information and access and then stepping out of their way to make it happen. They prosper like you could not imagine.
As celebration was ending we asked if there were any comments or questions. One student, George Comoros, who has been in all our classes, said that he wanted to say how much he appreciated that we return each year and that as he reflected on his work over the past 4 years, and in his words "as you move up the ladder" you can see your progress, you can take pride in your creations and you continue to grow in your ability to think and feel differently. He also turned to the younger students, forms 1 and 2 and said that they should stick with this because this is special. There are no other programs like this in schools and to take full advantage of the gifts. When you hear these comments, you are not sure if you should cry, smile, or just know that this is the gift you are given by these beautiful students.
Another Student, Dennis Owino, who has also been with us the whole time said that he had never encountered two more generous and caring people and that we are so committed and they are so appreciative. He also said something that I had never considered or knew. He said that this program had created community within the school amongst students that normally would never interact such as forms 1 and 4s in the same class room. My stomach at that point felt ill and like we had been given more than we deserve from them. This was a particularly hard year since this is the first you that all our students who started 4 years ago were not here. The forms 4's of last year were not present with the exception of a handful of graduates that chose to come back and take part in the graduate institute which was in its first year. The other difficulty was saying good bye to the forms 4's that have been with us both for this whole time. We are saying good bye to these students realizing if they leave with something from this program, we have done what we came to do; provide them a new way to express themselves, a new voice, confidence they may not have had in the past and confidence that they have to create something that is all their own. Creating art can give you so much. The hugs good bye today were filled with love and gratitude and for the first time, they tugged tightly and told us they would miss us and they gave emails. If this is what it feels like to let go of your children, this is hard stuff and as I type this tears are streaming down my face.
At dinner, Margaret and I reflected on these weeks and how wonderful this has been for the last 4 years. How it has become easier and easier each year and how the gifts of these students make our cups floweth over. The progress and the pride, the ability and the talent, the ownership and the hope. It is all present in these amazing children.
We ended the evening with a visit with Sr. Mary Owens, Executive Director of Nyumbani. We brought her a book from a colleague as well as giving her one of our books that has chapters about Nyumbani in it and she was so excited and kept going through it when we were meeting with her. She is an incredible woman and runs an organization that serves hiv/aids orphans and those who have been impacted by AIDS. She is just one terrific woman who is one of the smartest and most capable woman I have ever met. I am fortunate to serve on the Nyumbani board and feel honored to serve this organization.
We made it back to the ranch to settle in. Tomorrow will be a day of packing, picking up and delivering furniture to the school, last minute gifts to take home and saying good bye to the Jesuits at Pedro Arrupe Center, David Dinda, Franco and our Kenya until next we return. Its always so hard to say good-bye.
A funny thing happened towards the end of our day with the students that made me realize, it is ALL about this program. Francis was using my camera and he came to me and said I can't take any more pictures and I said its probably because you have filled the card. He came back a few minutes later and said, someone fixed it but now there were only the most recent pictures he had taken. I looked at the camera and he realized that all 800 pictures had been deleted. I looked at him and said it seems they had been deleted and all he could do was profusely apologize. I said that I was not upset and that this was just an accident and inside I was not feeling the same way. After we left, said good bye, hugs and nice comments, dinner and now writing you this blog, it is not about the photos, its about the impact that we have on each other and the memories Margaret and I get to carry with us and share with you. (But as I said to Margaret in the car leaving the school, "Damn those were great pictures!").
On behalf of Margaret and me, thank you for joining us on this journey. It is with the love and support of so many that we get to take part in this wonderful experience and we are just so grateful.
We shall see you all soon. No more blogs until next year and we look forward to sharing this experience with you again in 2012.
Be well,
Charles and Margaret